I Believe

Thing of it is... the following is a conversation between me and Raquel, my granddaughter, when she was 5 years old.


Raquel: GG, what are those people talkin' about on TV? Why are they yelling around like that?

Me: Oh, they're arguing because they disagree. They both think they're right. They each believe something different and each of them thinks what they believe is the truth. Sometimes, it's hard to know what's really true, don't you think? 

Raquel: Sometimes... 

Me: Like what? 

Raquel: I don't remember what those are right now.

Me: Oh, okay. But, if you feel like you really need to know something what do you usually do?

Raquel: I ask Mommy. I ask my Dad... At school, my teacher. I ask you, when I'm over here.

Me: Have you ever asked a grown-up something and they said they didn't know?

Raquel: Grown-ups know stuff. Sometimes they say it and sometimes they don't say it. Sometimes they just say go play outside or somethin'. You don't know stuff huh, GG? You don't know stuff all the time! Ha ha ha!

Me: Ha ha ha! That's true. But, if we don't know we can look it up.

Raquel: Like on the internet?

Me: Yes... and books too.

Raquel: The internet is faster! Ha!

Me: It is. So, tell me what happens when you ask someone and they don't know. What do you do then?

Raquel: I think about it sometimes but not that much. I only believe stuff that's true. You're only supposed to believe stuff that's really true.

Me: Oh, okay. So Raquel, what do you really believe that you know for sure is true?

Raquel: Hmm. I believe when it storms, sometimes the lights go out.  And when the lights go out... it's dark!

Me: You're a smart cookie.


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Children are unpredictable. You never know what inconsistency they're going to catch you in next. Only a child can ask questions that a wise man cannot answer. ))))

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You deserve praise for not going down the route of either religion or Santa Claus when she asked if you were only supposed to believe things that were true. I suspect I'd have destroyed Raquel's Christmas had I been in your shoes.

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She's all ready figured the Santa Claus thing out but still enjoys the holiday.
Her grandfather (on the other side) is a Baptist Bishop. I happen to be an Agnostic. During a visit, he told Raquel something like, "God is perfect, knows everything and holds the whole world in His invisible hands". She told me about it after and asked if that was true. Since I've no desire to convince, convert, coerce anyone at all or imply that her grandfather who loves her can't be trusted... I asked what she thought first. She her grandfather wouldn't let her invisible friend "be true" but said God "had to be true" and that wasn't fair. I agree with Raquel. It's not fair at all.

P.S. Checked out your blog btw. Completely identified with the tea bag post. I've done the same thing but slugged it down after it got cold. Yuck.

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I agree with you and Raquel; not fair. Although an invisible friend is quite well camouflaged, so hopefully she'll just ignore him and carry on.

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