How to make the whole world work on You Part II

Pressure

“ I have to live as I think is right. You have to live as I think is right "

( from life)

One more way to manipulate – is pressure. It has the simplest look: “Do it in this way. Do it in this way, it will be better. Do it! No, do it! Do it, I’ve said!...” and so on. Probably pressure can be useful only with a weak and primitive person, or with the one who is used to be under pressure.

But the main idea of “dirty games” is that it’s not as easy to reveal it as it may seem.
The philosophy of the manipulators is: “You can override any tank on a little motorcycle”.
And in most of the times they are right.

For example: There is a newly born in a young family ( and it is always some kind of panic around the baby). Suddenly, appears that granny is against “Pampers”. But sharing her opinion with the daughter gives her to realize that her opinion is not so important as it should be. Next day , with careless intonation she is saying that the neighbors’ baby have some problems because of these harmful “Pampers”. The day after on the kitchen table she is leaving, by chance, an article about all minuses of using “Pampers”. Moreover every time changing closes on her grandson, with the presence of her daughter she is murmuring: “Pure, boy…You can’t put your little legs together…It’s such a hell for you, pure baby…Let’s see if everything is ok with your sensitive skin, my honey…In my times it was easier…Just put a piece of close and that’s it…What a nice feeling.” And so on.

And what can you say here. Granny is just sharing news about neighbors, just forgets magazines on the table and talking with her beloved grandson. Anyway, besides all this even if her daughter won’t refuse of using “Pampers” and won’t wake up every hour in the night to change the close on her baby, her nerves will completely brake down.


Mother
- Would you like a salad with a mayones or with a cream?
Daughter
- With a cream.
After 5 minutes
Mother ( coolly )
- So, would U like me to do it with a mayones or with a cream?
Daughter ( with a raised eyebrows )
- With a cream!
After next 5 minutes
Mother ( in a soft-core manner )
- Or with a mayones?
Daughter ( distinctly )
- I like with a cream, mom…!
In next 10 min.
- So, what’s the final decision, mayones or a cream?
Daughter ( laughing )
- With a mayones, mom, with a mayones….