Love Cancer

The world wants us to believe that we are all emotionally healthy, stable people and dysfunctional marriages just happen because of bad luck. The fault for everything negative in our lives belongs to someone else. The world would also like us to believe that perfectly healthy people just wake up one day with cancer for no apparent reason.

Both statements are lies. The way we conduct our lives draws certain people to us. Our state of mind controls the type of people we are attracted to. Emotionally healthy people are not attracted to losers. If your spouse is truly a looser, remember that you chose them. All of the problems in the marriage may be their fault but, you chose them. What is it about you, that would make you choose someone like that?

If you view your spouse as a cancer in your life, you can cut them out. But if you don't change the things about your self that made you choose them to begin with, you'll end up in the same type of relationship again. You'll keep getting yourself in the same type of relationship until your emotionally dead - and sometimes longer. The next person may seem to be different to you at first, but eventually you'll find out that they're no different than the last one. You may begin to think that everyone of the opposite sex is a creep. This is not true. Everyone that you choose to surround yourself with may very well be a creep.

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