.....Parable....

Once, daughter came to her father and said:
- Father I’m tired, I have such a difficult life, so much difficulties and problems, I feel like I'm flowing against the stream, I have no more force….What should I do?
Father didn’t answer the question; he just went to the kitchen and put on fire 3 different pots full of water. In the first pot he putted carrot, in the second- egg and the third he filled with coffee. Some time later he took from these pots carrot, egg and purred coffee in the cup.
-What have changed? – He asked his daughter
- Egg and carrot are boiled, and the coffee is ready- answered she
- No, my honey, this is only a bird’s-eye view on the things. Look, hard carrot after being put in the hot water became soft and pillowy. Tender and weak egg became hard. They haven’t changed on the first sight, on the surface; they simply changed their structure under the same inconvincible condition – boiling water. The same happens with people….those who are tough become weak and deplorable, while those who are fragile and gentle become steel and strong.
- And what about coffee, - asked daughter
- O, this is the most interesting! Coffee completely melted in this new cruel condition and changed it- turned boiling water into beautiful flavorous drink. There are some special people who don’t change under the rough conditions, they change these conditions by themselves and make something new and proper from it, deriving benefit and experience…..