The American dream

An American businessman was standing at the pier of a small coastal Mexican village when a small boat with just one fisherman docked. Inside the small boat were several large yellowfin tuna. The American complimented the Mexican on the quality of his fish.

"How long did it take you to catch them?" the American asked.

"Only a little while" the Mexican replied.

"Why don't you stay out longer and catch more fish?" the American then asked.

"I have enough to support my family's immediate needs" the Mexican said.

"But" the American then asked, "What do you do with the rest of your time?"

The Mexican fisherman said: "I sleep late, fish a little, play with my children, take a siesta with my wife, Maria, stroll into the village each evening where I sip wine and play guitar with my amigos. I have a full and busy life, senor."

The American scoffed: "I am a Harvard MBA and could help you. You should spend more time fishing and with the proceeds you could buy a bigger boat and, with the proceeds from the bigger boat, you could buy several boats. Eventually you would have a fleet of fishing boats. Instead of selling your catch to a middleman, you would sell directly to the consumers, eventually opening your own can factory. You would control the product, processing and distribution. You would need to leave this small coastal fishing village and move to Mexico City, then LA and eventually NYC where you will run your expanding enterprise."

The Mexican fisherman asked: "But senor, how long will this all take?"

To which the American replied: "15-20 years."

"But what then, senor?"

The American laughed and said: "That's the best part. When the time is right, you would announce an IPO - an Initial Public Offering - and sell your company stock to the public and become very rich. You would make millions."

"Millions, senor? Then what?"

The American said slowly: "Then you would retire. Move to a small coastal fishing village where you would sleep late, fish a little, play with your kids, take a siesta with your wife, stroll to the village in the evenings where you could sip wine and play your guitar with your amigos..."

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Ho-Ho! It's a great story, Marina!
BTW, it's so interesting really, why the Indians or Mexicans who have very ancient culture, feel more satisfied with their lives than Americans - the folk which is much younger.
Perhaps they have gone through this stage already - the stage of hasty accumulation of richness just to relax at the end...? :)

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Most Americans are more like the Mexican man that you think. They watch TV, drink a lot of beer, do a lot of drugs, are totally in debt up to their ears. What this story is about is showing how Americans are good at one thing- projection! It's always the other guy that is lazy. Never us, lol. spiritnewsdaily.com

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Yeah, however the Mexican man wasn't lazy!
He worked. He just was confident with fishing, "small joys" in life and everything he has!
I think this story tells more about the power of restraining thyself in money, glory, goods etc.

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Certainly one way of looking at it, and admittedly true for many Americans. But to be fair what is described above is not the American Dream. The American Dream was, at least at one time, to have the OPPORTUNITY to pursue life, liberty, and happiness. The abililty to work hard in order to give your children the opportunity to pursue their dreams. Ones that you yourself may have been unable to attain in your own life. Unfortunately(my own opinion) a lot of Americans seem to have forgotten this and are under the notion that the Government, and whoever else we can think of, owe us something. This is what is dissolving the American Dream. And without meaning to insult any I think we can see some of the effects of this in Greece and possibly some other European countries. Greece is run and regulated by their Government to a degree far beyond America. Their economy and culture are in great peril right now and I feel for the people living there. Unfortunately their cries seem to be "Why is the Government not doing more! They should be taking care of us!" When we all dispose of our own personal responsibilty and look to the "Government" to take care of us then who is left to govern? America very well may have lost sight of it's values and responsibilities, but it isn't Capatilism's fault. It is by us turning away from the idea of a free market and people taking responsibility for their own live's that we have become lazy and dependent. There will always be those at the top taking advantage of people whether it be a Democratic or Socialist Republic. Unfortunately the latter gives the people much fewer options and avenues to change things. This may seem like and tangent(and maybe it is) but I think what this story really reaches at is the misconceptions that some may have of America's original beliefs. Unfortunately there are a lot of Americans that would disagree with me.

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I don't disagree with you at all. I've been living in Europe for the past seven years, and yes, there is a HUGE misunderstanding of who we are, what we are... the American Spirit and the American Dream. I've never experienced the country many of my European friends speak of. I find people much less satisfied with life in Poland specifically, and Europe overall, than when I was home in the States. But I guess misconceptions are pretty normal and goes both ways... I just try to talk as often as I can telling of my experiences. Perceptions are funny.

As far as the "perfect" work/life balance... well, I'm not quit there yet as my company has been going through a major period of expansion but I'm getting closer as I get older. I think my parents in Florida have the best work/life balance I've ever seen.

Anyway... I think the best thing we can do is talk with people from diferent cultures.

I hope Y'all have a Great day!!!

Chris

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That is a nice advice Chris! I lived in U.S for a while! When going there I had a lot of misconceptions about American culture and people. You are right Americans often look and felt happier, often because to a brand American smile. People smile little in Ukraine and feel quite suspisious when you smile at them. I work as an interpreter and journalist, so I often meet and talk to people from different continents and cultures, that is why I love about my job. People who do not travel can only rely on these misconceptions! )))

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I met a bunch of people in 2002 from Ukraine, Russia, Lithuania and Poland who were in the US working. We spent the summer together and all of us had various stereotypes about each other's countries. We all learned a lot that summer and even though I had a great job it was that summer that convinced me to come give Europe a try. I am American through and through but I am so happy I've had this opportunity. I love my country and get ridiculously homesick but I am grateful to have so many friends and experiences around the world.

Life is Great!!!

Chris

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You can also have substituted that same businessman for an Isreali businessman, an Indian businessman, a Chinese businessman, a Japanese businessman, a Saudi businessman or any other nation. In any developed nation there are very achiever oriented business people that see a bigger picture and very focused on wealth accumulation. That is what builds countries.

That same person from the US could have been a college student volunteering over the summer in the village and went down and helped the fisherman because he needed help unloading the boat and not looking for repayment. That same student may go back to his/her college finish thier Biology degree and become a doctor to help those who need help in 3rd world countries.

Why both sides of the story? Because the US has the resources to provide OPPORTUNITY. What you do with it is up to you. Other countries literally die trying to get to the United States so they can provide their familes this opportunity.

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Hello Marina,
I am only appreciating the freedom and responsibility of working as a consultant today as I take a day off to replenish my health, with no worries. My earnings are 2.4 X higher than my previous IT job which I hated(working for an insurance company)- I have a great client, a workday, best tax advantages but more responsibility towards my family for health costs, retirement planning. Overall, I am happier doing this because I am responsible for my destiny and successes, picking and choosing mandates that are interesting for me and taking time for myself and my son today. I picked him up at his dentist appnt. after my wife dropped him this morning. After that, we went out for a healthy pancakes+hash browns. We went home and I listened to his piano + cello pieces he is working on. He will go to school this afternoon after spending time with his uncle who loves to make lunch meal for him. Also, I do have a friend who is Mexican and she takes off every 2 months to spend time with her family in Mexico. She has a tough job, counselling people - She is a wise one. Always listen to those with a slower pace of life than yours.

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You seemed to find the golden mean between your work and your family. I lived in US for a while and have been working with Mexican people like your friend and get money enough only to feed their kids. I guess the problem with these Mexican fisherman or any other minimum-wage worker is lack of motivation and the absense of development. They just get used to the idea of survival.

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Hi Marina,

This is my very first thread since joining the EDUCOPark social network - Great Story, actually I heard it many years ago. What a good example of how we think of business today - build a great company and have a great exit strategy for cashing-out. One of my business mentors who sold his company for 56 million recently purchased another company because he was tired of his relaxed luxury lifestyle - there's only so much

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