Twenty-something - yeison.com

If you are over the age of twenty please look away as this may not sit well with you. I have recently come to realise that your twenties are probably the best time of your life. Now, by no means am I saying that your life gets rubbish or boring after your twenties, on the contrary it can be a great and enriching time. But when you really think about it, being twenty means youth, inexperience and freedom because you are an open and unwritten book. When you are in your twenties you see life in such a different way. You yearn for that new experience, you learn so much every day. You feel invincible, like you can do anything and you are aware that life is full of opportunities. You can go out and party till late and still get up early the following day for work or university.

During your twenties, there are so many things that you can do that you could never do before, in fact I have seen so many applications for different things for ages 18-27. Even celebrities truly begin there lives in there twenties, then in there thirties they get replaced by some new hot shot twenty-something year old actor. This is because at twenty, you look young, you look good and at the peak of your life. At twenty-something life tends to be about you and what you want to do.

Your twenties are also a big time to set the trend for the rest of your life, the mentality you are setting up during this age sees you till the end of your life and very few can change their mental attitudes after this point. Of course there are always many exceptions, I know twenty year olds that seem to have skipped that decade out of there life and thirty-somethings that live a twenty year old’s life. But at the end it is about what makes us as individuals happy.

As I write this I am sitting in a Starbucks on the corner of Regent Street and Piccadilly Circus in London. I’m looking out of the window and I see people of all ages walking by. I can’t help but wonder at what stage in there lives these people are because they’re ranging from 8 to 80 years old so imagine if you could see life through their eyes for a day? At twenty-one I have the freedom to travel up and down the country as I please, to experience so many new things, to do almost anything. But will I still have such freedom and openness at thirty-one?

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I wish i could join you in Starbucks, I lack it here in Ukraine. It is still one of my favorites places for coffee. Every time I go abroad, I'm searching for Starbucks with anticipation.
As for the questions set< I believe each age has its own advantages. I'm 22 now. I just finished my university. I'm open for new opportunies and seaching for the deal of my life. Being 20, was a hard time for me in some way. I got my classes five days a week since 9 am to 3 pm. Then I rushed to my part time job. CAme back home late at night and wake up early in the morning. It was the year when my parents announced my quite grown up to be an indepenent person, so I had to do my own living and pay the rent myself. But despite of all this, I was happy and full of energy. I feel more freedom and extremely enjoy beig 22. ))) I knew I would be different in my 30's, but I hope I would enjoy my thirties as much as I enjoy my twenties. ))))

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Marina, starbucks coffee is the worst, and I have starbucks every corner of my home town. Coffee Bean however... yum. Then again the best coffee is always at that remote single independant family owned coffee shop. But one thing I can say about starbucks, great Chai Latté!! :)

As for the twenty something, Yeison is right in his assessments. I am far from my twenties, but they live within me as the years of self discovery and exploration of the world. I traveled everywhere during my twenties, from est coast USA to across Canada, France, Spain, England, Australia, Egypt (four times) and lived in Israel for a while. Oh and of course Mexico. I also worked for my travels (though now I think it would have been wiser to travel half the amount and use some of that accumulated money to invest in a home.)

I was a bit of a bohemian in my early thirties, doing yoga classes, learning and performing flamenco dance for fun and for fund raising for children causes. I lived in the center of down town Montreal and loved the city life and friends. My thirties, was also for a couple but serious relationships of which the third (third time is the charm right?) became my life partner. And as I look back, I know I couldn't have made as good a choice in a man in my twenties. So yes the twenties is for self discovery and where you learn what is good and right for you, a time to take time and do much searching.

Now I am fourty, hmmm, but I feel twenty-nine. There is always that twenty something age that you get attached to, I believe it is the age that was the pivotal point in your life where you suddenly had (what Opra Winfrey would call) the ah ha moment. At fourty I am married and raising a child and I couldn't even imagine wanting to return to my twenties. And that's how it should be. For that means you have evolved and life moved forward and upward.

Every decade brings tremendous growth and I am only looking forward to 50 and 60 and beyond. Life is a constant journey. And what I learned in my twenties during my many travels, is that the journey is always the most fun, not the destination!

- Natalie
http://the3keysoflife.blogspot.com/

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